Organizations
- Park
Street
Church
An evangelical church in the heart of downtown
Boston and member of the Exodus Church Network.
- Exodus
Books
Exodus International offers a central location
for the purchase of related resources.
- PFOX -- Parents and Friends of
Ex-Gays and Gays
- NARTH -- National Association for
Research and Therapy of Homosexuality
The leading secular association "helping clients bring their
desires and behaviors into harmony with their values"
Articles
Books
- Portraits of Freedom by Bob Davies (Out of print)
- Thirteen stories of people from a wide variety of backgrounds who have left homosexuality. This book offers examples of the many paths to leaving a life of homosexuality through relationship with Christ.
- You Don't Have to Be Gay by Jeff Konrad
- This book is the story of the author and his main character’s (“Mike”) struggle with homosexuality, as told through excerpts of a lengthy letter exchange between the two men. The author tells about how he has experienced change and provides empathy and guidance to “Mike”. This book gives a good overview of current Christian thinking on homosexuality.
- Love Won Out by John & Anne Paulk
- This is the story of two people, living in two different cities, both struggling with homosexuality. Through the telling of each of their individual healing journeys with Jesus, and their coming together in marriage with each other, this book offers hope to those seeking restoration and re-creation through relationship with the living God.
- Called Out: A Former Lesbian's Discovery of Freedom by Janet Boynes
- In this book, the author shares about her childhood experiences of physical and sexual abuse, and how she feels this led her into the lesbian lifestyle. After being “called out” from this way of life in 1998, she now is able to offer hope and victory over the many temptations that the world holds for those who struggle with homosexuality, through the unconditional love of Christ and the church.
- How Will I Tell My Mother? A True Story of One Man's Battle with Homosexuality & AIDS
by Stephen & Jerry Arterburn
- Written alongside his brother, Jerry, Stephen tells the story of Jerry’s struggle with homosexuality and the difficulties of resisting the allures of the homosexual lifestyle. After Jerry’s diagnosis of AIDS he is compelled to find a way out of homosexuality into a life lived with hope and freedom in Jesus.
- The Gay Gospel? (Originally titled A Strong Delusion) by Joe Dallas
- Joe Dallas was a leader in the Metropolitan Community Church, a specifically homosexual denomination, before he had a major change of heart. In this book, he presents and confronts pro-gay theology in a direct yet compassionate way through scripture references. He provides the reader with a way to discuss the issues of this movement, while maintaining relationship with those who are struggling.
- The Bible and Homosexual Practice by Robert Gagnon
- In this book, the author rigorously explores the many biblical texts that reference homosexuality. Through an exhaustive discussion of these texts, he is able to provide a holistic view of the Bible’s command against sexual relations between members of the same sex. He cautions the reader and scholar alike to avoid dismissing the commands of the Bible as irrelevant in Today’s society, and encourages all to consider the many resources we have to explore this issue fully.
- Homosexuality and the Politics of Truth by Jeffrey Satinover
- Dr. Satinover is a Christian psychiatrist trained at MIT and Harvard Medical School, and is a former fellow in psychiatry and child psychiatry at Yale University. He first became interested in homosexuality when counseling young men dying of GRID (later named AIDS) in NYC in the early 80s. In this book, he challenges the theory that homosexuality is genetically determined and explores the social dynamics of the gay community.
- Ex-Gays? A Longitudinal Study of Religiously Mediated Change in Sexual Orientation
by Mark Yarhouse & Stanton Jones
- An academic study on the effectiveness of religiously based therapy, counseling, and support groups for effecting change in sexual orientation. Provides information on current therapeutic interventions utilized in the field today.
- Reparative Therapy of Male Homosexuality: A New Clinical Approach by Joseph Nicolosi
Healing Homosexuality: Case Stories of Reparative Therapy by Joseph
Nicolosi
- The author is a secular psychiatrist who specializes in helping men overcome unwanted same-sex attraction. He approaches the subject from an understanding of homosexuality as it relates to broken gender identity development. The second book listed offers personal stories of gay men facing their homosexual feelings as a part of their recovery.
- Growth into Manhood by Alan Medinger
- Offers the reader a resource about the healthy characteristics of a mature man, and how to attain the life that is meant for him.
- Restoring Sexual Identity by Anne Paulk
- Written for females, this book offers answers to questions for women facing lesbianism, as well as their friends and family. The author speaks from her own experiences, as well as those provided from an extensive survey conducted with former lesbians about same-sex attraction.
- God's Grace and the Homosexual Next Door: Reaching the Heart of the Gay Men and Women in Your World by Alan Chambers
- Author Alan Chambers—a former homosexual himself—and four of his colleagues at Exodus International offer practical and biblical insights on how both individuals and churches can become a haven for homosexuals seeking freedom from same-sex attraction. Readers will learn about: The roots of homosexuality, God’s radical grace for sexual sinners, Five things not to do in reaching out to gays, and much more.
- Every Man's Battle by Stephen Arterburn and Fred Stoeker
- A practical, detailed plan to help men find freedom from sexual temptation God's way. Includes a special section for women, designed to help them understand, empathize, and support the men they love.
- Coming Out of Homosexuality by Bob Davies & Lori Rentzel
- Do you want God's will for your life -- but struggle with gay or lesbian desires? In this practical guide, you'll find answers to your questions about what it means to be a man or woman, how your past relates to your present tensions, how biblical principles apply to your daily life, and more. This book will open up a new level of freedom and depth of insight beyond what you had dreamed possible.
- Desires in Conflict by Joe Dallas
- For more than a decade, Desires in Conflict has been the definitive “must-read” for those who wonder “Can a homosexual change?” This new edition with updated information offers more compelling reasons why the answer is “yes!”
- Wild at Heart by John Eldridge
- Eldridge says he's by no means a manly man to look at him, but there is something about masculinity and masculine love that we need to capture in order to feel right about ourselves. His goal through this book is to help men rediscover their masculine heart.
- The Battle for Normality: A Guide for (Self-)Therapy for
Homosexuality by Gerard Van Den Aardweg
- The author provides practical advice to help those trying to overcome homosexuality deal with the everyday, real-life issues of the struggles they face in doing so. This book is written as a way for those unable to enter formal therapy to experience healing from their homosexuality through the combination of psychological principles and prayer.
- Practical Exercises for Men in Recovery of Same-Sex Attractions by James Phelan
- A workbook of 80 exercises to help men recovering from same-sex attraction. This book offers behavioral and cognitive strategies, ways to regulate affect, as well as a helpful appendix/resource list and space for journaling.
- Helping People Step Out of Homosexuality by Frank Worthen
- A workbook originally intended as a handbook for pastors, counselors and lay workers, this book gives 12 recovery steps (unrelated to AA's 12 Steps) such as "the belief principle" (faith), submission to the divine will, and "displacement," or replacing old, unhealthy, thoughts and behaviors with healthy new ones.
- Homosexuality: A New Christian Ethic by Elizabeth Moberly
- A best-selling Christian book about homosexuality that combines a psychoanalytic approach while acknowledging the need for counseling and prayer. The author discusses how unmet developmental needs lead to homosexuality, and reminds us of the Christian beliefs regarding homosexuality.
- Pursuing Sexual Wholeness by Andrew Comiskey
- Full of practical insights and scriptural support for anyone seeking to understand sexual brokenness and the pursuit of sexual wholeness in Christ. Andy chronicles the events of his departure from the homosexual lifestyle as well as using the examples of others.
- Sexual Healing by David Kyle Foster
- Written for those who need and want freedom from sexual sin and healing of sexual brokenness, as well as for those who counsel them, this straightforward account of one man’s journey toward sexual wholeness and freedom provides a real-life testimonial to what really works in seeking God’s deliverance. Filled with God’s truths concerning holiness, with chapter exercises for practical guidance.
- Strength in Weakness by Andrew Comiskey
- Help and hope for men and women. Andrew Comiskey sees our weakness as "a threshold for holy power"--the point at which God can meet us for healing and equip us for service. With chapters focusing on particular areas of vulnerability for men and women, on the battle over homosexuality in church and culture, and on the essential role of the church in ongoing healing, Strength in Weakness makes clear the way to the cross--God's sufficient answer to our deepest needs.
- Setting Love in Order: Hope and Healing for the Homosexual by Mario Bergner
- A former homosexual tells his redemptive story of "healing." With great vulnerability, Mario Bergner describes his struggle to be free from what he calls "same-sex ambivalence," and addresses a controversial, timely issue in a redemptive, biblically sound manner.
- When Homosexuality Hits Home by Joe Dallas
- In this straightforward book, Joe Dallas offers practical counsel,
step by step, on how to deal with the many conflicts and
emotions parents, grandparents, brothers and sisters or any
family member will experience when learning of a loved one’s
homosexuality. Drawing from his own experience and from his
many years of helping families work through this perplexing
and unexpected situation, Joe offers scriptural and
compassionate advice to both struggling gays and those who
love them.
- Someone I Love Is Gay: How Family & Friends Can Respond by Anita Worthen & Bob Davies
- Finding out that a child, spouse, relative or friend is homosexual can be a confusing surprise. You are flooded with questions ranging from why to what's next and wonder what a biblical response would be. Drawing on their own personal experiences and those of others, the authors will help you handle your feelings while responding appropriately to your loved one.
- God's Grace and the Homosexual Next Door: Reaching the Heart of the Gay Men and Women in Your World by Alan Chambers
- Author Alan Chambers—a former homosexual himself—and four of his colleagues at Exodus International offer practical and biblical insights on how both individuals and churches can become a haven for homosexuals seeking freedom from same-sex attraction. Readers will learn about: The roots of homosexuality, God’s radical grace for sexual sinners, Five things not to do in reaching out to gays, and much more.
- Strength in Weakness by Andrew Comiskey
- Help and hope for men and women. Andrew Comiskey sees our weakness as "a threshold for holy power"--the point at which God can meet us for healing and equip us for service. With chapters focusing on particular areas of vulnerability for men and women, on the battle over homosexuality in church and culture, and on the essential role of the church in ongoing healing, Strength in Weakness makes clear the way to the cross--God's sufficient answer to our deepest needs.
- Healing Is a Choice by Steve Arterburn
- Choosing to heal is up to you, but the ability to heal is found in the power of God. In this book, Stephen Arterburn lists choices that you can make to find healing and the lies you might be faced with as a barrier to your healing.
- Boundaries by Cloud & Townsend
- Having clear boundaries is essential to a healthy, balanced lifestyle—they define who we are and who we are not. Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend offer biblically based guidance, showing us how to set healthy boundaries with our parents, spouses, children, friends, co-workers, and even ourselves.
- Safe People by Cloud & Townsend
- Safe people are people who help drive emotional healing and character growth. Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend show how we can find the people who will help us down the path to healing and void those who may damage our emotional health.
- Breaking Free by Russell Willingham
- Willingham discusses how to live in holiness in a world saturated with sexually charged media. In this book, he shares real-life stories of those struggling with sexual addiction and the essential and practical steps that can help people begin to break free.
- The Heart of Female Same Sex Attraction by Janelle Hallman
- A comprehensive resource for those who are interested in
understanding and counseling women in conflict with same-sex
attraction. Hallman sets forth the unique dimensions of
struggle that women experience through the presentation of
research, interviews and clinical experience.
|