“A Change of Affection” Book Review

“A Change of Affection” by Becket Cook was originally reviewed on my personal Instagram page on August 7th, 2020.

When Becket started showing up in various videos and on social media a few years back, I got a lot of questions about him. I think some of my friends feel I’m their personal expert in LGBTQ+ issues 😊 I don’t read or watch every new resource that comes out on the topic; I just don’t have time for that. But when one of the moms in a ministry support group highly recommended the book, I picked up a copy.


Becket’s story is certainly very compelling! A gay man who works as set designer in Hollywood, he bumps into someone at a coffee shop who invites him to church. The book is part personal story and part Becket’s theology/apologetics concerning biblical sexuality.


It was certainly a good read. I had to laugh when he had a chapter on the Rich Young Ruler. To those who have heard me speak on a Sunday morning, I promise I did not get the idea from him! He kind of went in a different direction anyways. He shared other compelling stories, comparing holding a Christian worldview with Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego (an analogy I previously heard in a similar form from Christopher Yuan). That’s just one example in addition to the rich young ruler 🙂 I guess great minds think alike!

It was also a relatively easy read. Even the theological sections were accessible for the average person. There was nothing new or particularly groundbreaking in this book for me, but I imagine I read more books on this topic than most!